Specific dress codes are needed for certain events. Often weddings and business events require formal attire, while most parties require more relaxed attire that can still be considered sophisticated. Understanding when each of these dress codes is required can be confusing for both men and women.
So, how can you tell what formal and semi-formal clothing is?
Formal attire is worn at evening gowns or tuxedo events. In contrast, semi-formal attire is dressier than what is normally worn at the office but more relaxed than formal wear. Semi-formal wear is expected to be party-appropriate without being over the top and is often known as ‘cocktail’ dress.
When it comes to formal and semi-formal, the clothing etiquette usually depends on the following: how you interpret the invitation, whether or not the event is flashy or more understated, and where the event will be taking place. Often, the invite states what the dress code is. Let’s take a look at how you can effortlessly present yourself in either dress code.
What a Formal Dress Invitation Means for Both Men and Women
If a dress code is specified and you don’t know what it means, and you show up dressed inappropriately, you will stand out from the crowd, which can be embarrassing.
Women
A formal dress invitation will require you to get pretty dolled up. Keeping the event in mind, understanding all aspects of a look, like the dress style and the embellishments will set you on the right track to looking amazing.
When an invite clearly states black tie, this means that this is a formal event where you can wear a full-length formal evening gown. A formal event is where you break out all the stops and wear something over the top.
Strapless gowns, lace gowns, and full bell skirt gowns are generally received well. The hand-beaded, sequined gowns give you a look of elegance, while gowns in a simple solid color give you a regal look.
Women Formal Work Wear
Formal wear for women isn’t just limited to black-tie events. Formal wear is usually expected at work too. Business formal wear is a fancy term for you have to wear a suit to work.
There are certain suits that you should focus on that are going to be acceptable. You can either do a jacket and pant combo, a jacket and skirt combo, or go for a jacket over a dress.
When you’re choosing a suit for formal business wear, both the jacket and the other piece, whether that’s a pencil skirt, pants, or dress, should always match. They should both be the same color and fabric.
This isn’t the time to make a bold fashion statement. You don’t want to look too outlandish or trendy. Keeping it classic and modest goes a long way in giving you the business air that you need.
Men
When you see an invite stating that the dress code is white tie, this is the top hierarchy. Today the dress code white tie is pretty rare as you usually have it in noble prize events, invitations from the queen, or perhaps opera balls.
A white tie means a white bowtie and a tailcoat that goes all the way down to the back of your knees. It makes you look supremely elegant and stylish.
Black tie is the younger brother of white tie. This is where you wear a tuxedo. Traditionally, it was a stiff white collar that has now been substituted with a softer turned-down collar, which is worn with a black silk bowtie.
Warm weather black tie is a tuxedo where the black jacket is switched for a white or off-white dinner jacket.
Another popular dress code in this day and age is a black-tie option. This means that people would love to see you in a tuxedo, so if you have one, you should wear it, but if you don’t, you don’t need to buy one for the event, or even worse, rent one. Instead, you can wear a dark suit with a tie or bowtie.
Formal evening wear usually means either a white tie or a black tie. Because a white tie is hardly ever expected, this means that you will need to wear a tuxedo. Should the formal event be during the day, this requires you to wear a morning coat, which is like a tailcoat, but it’s cutaway in the front.
What Does Semi-Formal Mean for Both Men and Women?
Women
For women, semi-formal means having more dress options as you can wear either knee-length or longer cocktail dresses. This is the perfect time for them as they are dressy but not over the top. A little black dress that is simple and yet classy is also appropriate.
Another combination that is usually accepted but not worn a lot is slack pants or a dressy skirt with a dressy blouse. You will still look chic and well put together.
Men
Semi-formal is another popular dress code that is also known as half dress. This means that you will be wearing a dark suit, a white shirt, and a tie. This way, you remain elegant and crisp-looking without going too overboard.
Always make sure that your shoes are just as dressy to complete the polished look.
The dark suit can be swapped out during the daytime for a suit of a lighter color and a fabric made with lighter material.
What Happens When an Invitation does not have a Dress Code?
What happens when the invitation does not include a dress code? How do you figure out what to wear? The first thing that you should do is to inspect the invitation.
Is it printed on a nice card? Is it letterpressed? Is it engraved? The more high-end the invitation, the nicer and more formally you have to dress.
You also have to think about the occasion. If it’s a wedding, then a semi-formal outfit of a jacket and suit is appropriate for men, and an elegant cocktail dress is suitable for women. If it’s a garden birthday party, you could probably get away with just the dress shirt.
Ensure that you also think about the people who invite you and what you know about them, the size of the event, as well as the location. If the event is at the best restaurant in town, you want to be dressed better than if you are going to the next barbeque joint.
The time of the event also has some significance because if it’s an evening event, chances are you have to wear a more formal outfit.
Conclusion
Many people get nervous when they see a dress code on an invite, but historically, dress code was meant to make things easy for you because everybody would wear the same thing, and you could truly focus on the party, and no one would be overdressed or underdressed so everybody could enjoy themselves.
Now that you know what to expect dressing up should be a breeze.
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