Finding the right hairstyle after 45 can significantly impact your overall appearance, especially when considering how it frames your neckline. As we mature, certain combinations of haircuts and necklines may no longer complement our features as they once did. Choosing a hairstyle that works harmoniously with your neckline can take years off your appearance and boost your confidence.
Many women discover that styles that looked fantastic in their 30s might not be as flattering in their mid-40s and beyond. This doesn’t mean limiting your options—rather, it’s about understanding which timeless haircuts flatter at any age and which combinations to avoid. With the right knowledge, you can select from numerous stunning hairstyles for women over 45 that enhance your natural beauty while addressing common concerns.
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28. Heavy fringes that drop over the eyes creating shadows
Heavy fringes that completely cover your eyebrows and hover just above your lashes might have looked edgy in your youth, but after 45 they can create unflattering shadows on your face. These dense, eye-covering bangs often cast darkness around your eyes, which can emphasize fine lines and make you appear tired.
As you mature, your face naturally loses some volume and definition. When your fringe sits too low, it can hide your beautiful eyes and create a heavy, drooping effect that ages rather than flatters your features.
Instead, you might consider fringe hairstyles that frame your eyebrows for a more youthful appearance. These styles lift attention upward and keep your face open and bright.
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Curtain bangs offer a fantastic alternative that works well for mature faces. They part in the middle and sweep to the sides, highlighting your cheekbones while softening your features.
You can also try wispy or side-swept fringes that add movement without the heaviness. These styles complement your face shape while avoiding those aging shadows that full, heavy bangs can create.
27. Very short pixie cuts with harsh, sharp lines
While pixie cuts can be incredibly chic, after 45 you might want to reconsider very short styles with harsh, sharp lines. These severe cuts can create a stark contrast against softer facial features that naturally change with age.
The graphite pixie with shaved details trending for 2025 might look edgy on younger faces, but can emphasize rather than complement your features as you mature.
You’ll find that softer, more textured pixies are more flattering than those with geometric lines and sharply shaved sides. Hard lines can draw attention to areas you might prefer to soften.
Very short pixie haircuts can still be feminine and age-appropriate when styled with softer edges. Consider asking your stylist to incorporate feathered textures rather than blunt lines.
If you love short hair, opt for styles that don’t require much work but still maintain a softness around your face. This balance helps create harmony between your haircut and neckline.
Remember that your hairstyle should complement your neckline. Harsh pixie cuts can create visual discord with certain necklines, especially higher collars or asymmetrical designs.
26. Necklines that sit too low and emphasize sagging skin
As you enter your mid-40s, certain necklines can draw unwanted attention to signs of aging in the neck area. Low-cut tops and plunging necklines tend to highlight what many women refer to as sagging skin or “turkey neck”.
When the skin loses its elasticity with age, it begins to sag, particularly in the delicate neck area. This natural process happens because of the thin skin in that region, combined with sagging muscles and fat deposits that become more noticeable over time.
You might find that V-necks that dip too low can create a visual line drawing the eye directly to areas where your skin has begun to lose firmness. Instead of concealing these changes, extremely low necklines frame them prominently.
The key is finding necklines that work with your changing body rather than against it. Many women discover that certain hairstyles can help camouflage a sagging neck when paired with the right neckline.
Remember that addressing this concern doesn’t mean hiding behind turtlenecks year-round. It’s about making thoughtful choices that highlight your best features while providing flattering coverage where desired.
25. Turtlenecks that add bulk to the neck area
As you approach your mid-40s, certain turtleneck styles can work against you by adding unwanted bulk around the neck area. Chunky turtlenecks are generally not recommended for women with curves, as they can add volume to your upper body.
The thick, folded fabric of bulky turtlenecks tends to create a shortened appearance between your chin and chest. This compression effect can make your neck look thicker and less defined—exactly what you want to avoid after 45 when skin naturally loses some elasticity.
Consider the fabric weight carefully. Heavy knits and ribbed turtlenecks with wide, folded-over collars add visual weight to your neckline and can emphasize any fullness under your chin.
Instead of chunky styles, you might want to try slim-fit turtlenecks that show your natural shape without adding bulk. The GAP Women’s Long Sleeve Puffed Shoulder Turtleneck offers a lightweight alternative with design details that draw attention elsewhere.
When wearing turtlenecks, your hairstyle choice becomes especially important. Avoid hairstyles that add volume around your face when paired with bulky turtlenecks, as this combination can overwhelm your features.
24. Dramatic V-necks that elongate the neck too much
V-necks are typically flattering for many women, but after 45, dramatically deep V-necklines can sometimes create an unflattering elongation of the neck area. You might notice that extremely plunging V-necks draw attention to neck changes that naturally occur with age.
When paired with certain hairstyles, this combination can be particularly problematic. Sleek buns or high ponytails with dramatic V-necks create too much vertical emphasis, making your neck appear unusually long or thin.
Instead of very deep V-necks, you might consider a more moderate V that still provides the elongating effect without exaggeration. This neckline works better with softer hairstyles that have some volume around the face.
For those with round or apple-shaped body types, a moderate V-neck is still your friend—just not the extremely deep versions. They can still flatter your figure without emphasizing neck changes.
Remember that balance is key. If you love V-necks, wear them with hairstyles that have some softness around the face rather than severely pulled-back styles.
23. Layered lob with excessive volume near the neckline
While the layered lob haircut remains a popular choice for many women, creating too much volume at the neckline after age 45 can create an unbalanced silhouette.
When layers are cut too short at the back, they can poof out around your neck, creating a bottom-heavy appearance that draws attention to areas you might prefer to minimize. This effect often makes the neck appear shorter and wider.
A better alternative is to ask your stylist for layered lob styles with graduated layers that distribute volume more evenly throughout the cut. This creates movement without the mushroom effect at the neckline.
If you love the long bob concept but want to avoid neckline volume issues, consider longer layers that begin at chin level and cascade downward. This approach maintains the chic lob silhouette while flattering your neckline.
For women with naturally thick hair, thinning shears used selectively near the neckline can help reduce unwanted bulk while maintaining the overall shape and style of your lob.
22. Overly slicked-back hairstyles that highlight wrinkles
Pulling your hair tightly back might seem like a sophisticated option, but after 45, this style can work against you. When your hair is severely slicked back, it creates tension that draws attention to fine lines around your forehead, temples, and eyes.
The sleek look offers no softness to frame your face, leaving facial wrinkles more exposed and prominent. Many brushed-back hairstyles for older ladies can be modified to avoid this harsh effect.
You might notice that extremely tight, wet-look styles like the slick-back bun create a pulled appearance that emphasizes rather than conceals signs of aging. This style eliminates any face-softening elements that naturally help balance your features.
Instead, consider styles that maintain some volume around your face. Even if you prefer pulled-back looks, leaving some gentle wisps or volume at the crown creates a more flattering effect.
A looser, textured updo or a style with face-framing layers provides the elegance you want without the aging effect of severe slick-backs. Remember that flattering hairstyles for mature women typically incorporate softness rather than severity.
21. Square necklines that emphasize jawline heaviness
As you age, certain facial features become more pronounced, and jawline heaviness is often one of them. Square necklines can draw unwanted attention to this area, creating a visual echo of angular shapes that may not be flattering after 45.
Square necklines form a horizontal line across your chest that parallels a square jawline. This repetition of similar shapes can accentuate angular features rather than providing the softening effect you might prefer.
If you have a square face shape, you might want to avoid these sharp-cornered necklines. Instead, consider necklines that add softness to your jawline, such as sweetheart or scoop styles.
Your hairstyle can also impact how a square neckline looks. Wearing your hair down with soft waves can help balance the angular effect, while severe updos might compound the problem by exposing more of your jawline.
For those with fuller faces, a side part with gentle layers can help soften your appearance when wearing square necklines.
20. Bangs that are too thick and flat on a mature forehead
As you age, your hairstyle choices become even more important for framing your face. Thick, flat bangs that sit heavily across your forehead can actually emphasize fine lines rather than concealing them.
The problem with dense, straight-across bangs is that they create a harsh horizontal line that draws attention to your forehead area. Many women choose bangs thinking they’ll hide wrinkles, but the wrong type can do the opposite.
A better alternative would be wispy bangs that gently graze your forehead, adding softness to your features. These lighter options frame your face in a much more flattering way.
Side-swept bangs can also provide coverage while maintaining movement and grace. Their flowing nature works with your face shape rather than creating a stark contrast.
Curtain bangs have become a fan favorite for mature women. Parted slightly in the middle, they frame your face beautifully without feeling too heavy or overwhelming.
Remember that your bangs should complement your face shape and hair texture. The right style will enhance your natural beauty rather than working against it.
19. Long straight hair without layers that drapes heavily
While long straight hair has timeless appeal, after age 45 it may work against your features when worn without layers. Hair that falls heavily around your face can drag down your features and emphasize facial lines.
When hair lacks layers and movement, it creates a curtain effect that can make you appear tired or older than you are. The weight of straight, unlayered hair pulls downward, potentially emphasizing jowls or neck laxity.
You might find that this style draws attention to areas you’d prefer to minimize. Heavy, straight hair without dimension tends to highlight rather than soften facial asymmetries that naturally develop with age.
Consider adding even subtle layers to create movement and lift around your face. These layers can help frame your features more flatteringly while maintaining your desired length.
The good news is that trendy hairstyles for long straight hair don’t require dramatic changes. Even minimal layering can transform your look while keeping the elegance of longer locks.
If you love your length, try incorporating visible layers that add dimension without sacrificing overall length. This simple change can brighten your entire appearance.
18. High collars combined with bulky necklaces
High necklines can create an elegant silhouette when styled properly. However, pairing a high collar with chunky jewelry after 45 can create visual clutter around your face and neck area.
High-collared necklines already draw attention to your neck and jawline. Adding bulky necklaces to this mix creates competing focal points that can overwhelm your overall appearance.
Instead of bulky necklaces with high collars, consider showcasing the elegant silhouette with a sleek updo or ponytail. This combination elongates your neck and creates a more balanced look.
For high-collared outfits, try simple studs or drop earrings instead of statement necklaces. These accessories complement rather than compete with the neckline.
If you love your statement necklaces, save them for lower necklines where they can shine without competing with your clothing. Your high collars deserve their own moment to shine.
A top knot or low chignon works beautifully with high necklines, creating a sophisticated look that frames your face without adding bulk to the neck area.
17. Side-parted short curls that create unbalanced height
While short curly hair can be absolutely gorgeous at any age, a deep side part might create unbalanced height that doesn’t flatter your features after 45. This asymmetrical weight distribution can emphasize facial asymmetry rather than complement your natural beauty.
When you opt for side-parted short curls, the volume tends to concentrate on one side of your head. This uneven distribution can make your face appear lopsided or draw attention to areas you might prefer to downplay.
The deeply side-parted short cut often creates a dramatic look that might overwhelm your features rather than enhance them. As we mature, a more balanced style typically provides a more harmonious frame for your face.
Consider modifying your part slightly toward the center or asking your stylist to create more balanced layers. You can still enjoy your beautiful curls without the extreme height difference that an exaggerated side part creates.
A side-parted curly shag with more evenly distributed volume can give you that playful texture without the unbalanced effect. The key is finding the right balance that flatters your unique features.
16. Wide boat necklines that add width to the shoulders
Boat necklines, also known as bateau or Sabrina necklines, can be problematic after age 45 if you have broader shoulders. These necklines run horizontally from shoulder to shoulder, skimming the collarbones and creating a wider appearance.
While boat necks might seem elegant, they can actually make your shoulders appear even broader than they are. This effect occurs because the wide horizontal line draws the eye outward, emphasizing shoulder width.
If you have an inverted triangle body shape with naturally broader shoulders, boat necklines should be avoided. They work against your body’s natural proportions rather than balancing them.
Finding the right proportions is key when considering a boat neckline. As experts note, if the boat neckline is too wide, it can make broad shoulders appear even broader.
Instead, you might want to try V-necks, scoop necks, or cowl necklines that create vertical visual interest. These styles help to balance broader shoulders by drawing the eye downward rather than across.
15. Very blunt bobs that cut off at the chin sharply
While blunt bobs have become trendy in 2025, those that cut off sharply at the chin can be problematic after age 45. This particular style tends to draw attention directly to the jawline and neck area, which may highlight areas you’d prefer to soften.
As we age, our skin naturally loses elasticity around the neck and jawline. A harsh chin-length cut can create a visual line that emphasizes rather than flatters these changes.
Chin-length blunt bobs also offer little styling flexibility. When your hair can only hang at one length, you’re limited in how you can frame your face on different days or for various occasions.
Consider opting for a softer blunt bob that falls slightly below the jawline instead. This small adjustment creates a more flattering frame while maintaining the chic appeal of a bob.
You might also explore adding subtle layers or texture to break up the harshness while keeping the overall blunt appearance. These modifications can make this classic style work wonderfully for you at any age.
14. Off-centered short haircuts that highlight neck sagging
While short haircuts can be stylish at any age, certain asymmetrical or off-centered styles might actually draw attention to neck sagging rather than concealing it. These cuts tend to create visual lines that lead the eye directly to the neck area.
The problem often occurs with short asymmetric cuts that feature dramatic length differences from one side to the other. When one side is significantly shorter, it creates an imbalance that can make sagging neck skin more noticeable.
Short cuts with sharp angles pointing toward your neck can unintentionally highlight areas you might prefer to downplay. This effect becomes more pronounced if you frequently tuck hair behind your ears, creating a frame that directs attention downward.
A better alternative might be a graduated bob that offers balanced coverage around the neck or styles with softer layers that blend more naturally with your neckline.
If you love shorter styles, consider options with volume at the crown and sides to create a more flattering silhouette. Pixie cuts with side bangs can work wonderfully when properly shaped to accentuate your facial features instead of drawing attention downward.
13. Tight braids or cornrows that pull on thinning hair
As you age, your hair naturally becomes thinner and more fragile. Wearing tight braids or cornrows can cause damage if they pull too much on your scalp.
These styles may have looked fantastic in your younger years, but after 45, the tension they create can lead to hair breakage and even accelerate hair loss. The constant pulling stresses your already vulnerable hair follicles.
You might notice thinning edges when regularly wearing these hairstyles. This occurs because the tension is particularly harsh on the delicate hairline.
Don’t worry, you don’t have to give up braided styles completely! Consider looser braiding techniques that put less stress on your scalp. Protective styles with lower tension can still look elegant without damaging your hair.
Box braids can work for thin hair when they’re kept smaller and lighter. This prevents excessive weight that could strain your hair further.
Try short braids for thin hair as a gentler alternative. The reduced length means less weight pulling down on your scalp.
12. Low buns positioned at the nape emphasizing neck folds
Low buns can be a classic and elegant hairstyle choice, but their placement matters significantly as you age. When positioned directly at the nape of your neck, these buns can unfortunately draw unwanted attention to neck folds that naturally develop after 45.
The positioning is crucial because low buns at the nape pull the eye downward, highlighting an area you might prefer to de-emphasize. This hairstyle creates a stark contrast between your hair and skin, making any neck creases more noticeable.
You might consider raising your bun slightly higher for a more flattering effect. A low bun positioned at ear-level rather than at the very bottom of your hairline creates a more balanced look without drawing focus to neck folds.
Texture also matters with low buns. A sleek, tight bun tends to emphasize neck lines more than looser, textured styles that create softer transitions between your hair and neck area.
If you love the low bun look, try incorporating some face-framing pieces or soft wisps around your face to draw attention upward rather than to the neck area.
11. Halter necklines that leave the neck exposed and bare
Halter necklines create a beautiful silhouette by wrapping around the back of the neck while leaving the shoulders and upper back exposed. After 45, you might find that this style draws attention to areas you’d prefer not to highlight.
The halter neckline has ancient origins dating back to Greece, but became especially popular in the 1940s and 1950s with icons like Marilyn Monroe. While timeless, this style can pose challenges for mature skin.
As we age, the neck area often shows signs of aging first. The exposed nature of halter tops can emphasize crepey skin or what some call “turkey neck” – completely natural but not always what you want to showcase.
Your hairstyle choice becomes particularly important with halter necklines. Traditional advice suggests wearing hair up with statement necklines like halters, but this further exposes the neck area.
Consider pairing halter styles with a lightweight, draped scarf or choosing halter designs with higher fronts that offer more coverage while still maintaining the elegant silhouette. This way, you can enjoy the flattering shoulder emphasis without compromising on comfort.
10. Flat, one-length cuts lacking movement and lightness
As you reach your mid-40s, flat, one-length haircuts can sometimes work against your facial features by creating a heavy, dragging effect. These styles, while classic, may lack the movement that adds youthfulness to your overall appearance.
A one-length bob without layers can appear weighty and severe, especially if you have fine or thinning hair. The solid shape tends to emphasize facial asymmetries rather than complement your features.
When hair falls in a single, unbroken curtain, it creates shadows that can accentuate signs of aging around your jawline and neck. You might find that this style draws attention to areas you’d prefer to soften.
Consider instead opting for a bob with textured ends that add movement and allure. Even minimal layering can transform a flat cut into something more flattering and contemporary.
Many stylists recommend adding side fringes to one-length styles after 45, as this combination softens your features and creates a more youthful appearance. Communication with your stylist about face-flattering options is key.
9. Necklines with big, stiff collars that overshadow the face
As you mature, overly large and stiff collars can create an unbalanced look that overwhelms your facial features. These dramatic necklines compete for attention with your face, which should always be the focal point of your appearance.
Big, structured collars that stand tall or wide draw the eye away from your face and can make your neck appear shorter. This is particularly problematic after 45, when maintaining proportion becomes increasingly important for a youthful appearance.
High collar necklines can cast unflattering shadows on your face, emphasizing fine lines and creating a harsh contrast. Instead, look for softer collar styles that frame rather than overshadow your features.
The problem intensifies if you have a round or short face shape. Stiff collars that rise high can make your face appear even rounder or shorter by reducing the visible length of your neck.
Consider swapping these overwhelming collars for more universally flattering options like moderate V-necks or small collar designs that provide structure without dominating your overall look.
8. Deep scoop necks that draw attention to chest wrinkles
As you enter your mid-40s, your skin naturally begins to show signs of aging, particularly in delicate areas like the chest and neck. Deep scoop necklines can inadvertently highlight these changes.
Scoop necks typically create a longer look and draw the eye downward. While this style is generally flattering, after 45 it might direct unwanted attention to chest wrinkles or sun damage that has accumulated over the years.
You might consider opting for a more moderate scoop that sits higher on the chest. This modification still provides the elongating effect without exposing the more wrinkle-prone areas.
Another option is to try a narrow scoop rather than a wide one, which can be more flattering if you’re concerned about chest appearance.
Alternatively, a V-neckline can create similar elongating benefits while directing focus toward your face rather than your chest area.
Consider pairing your tops with delicate necklaces that rest above the décolletage to draw attention upward toward your face instead of highlighting chest wrinkles.
7. Middle parts with flat, heavy lengths on the face sides
As you approach your mid-40s, middle parts with heavy, flat lengths framing your face can create an aging effect rather than a youthful one. This style tends to drag down your features and emphasize fine lines around your face.
The weight of thick hair hanging straight down from a middle part can cast unflattering shadows, especially if you have begun to experience loss of facial volume that naturally occurs with age. Middle parts aren’t inherently problematic, but the combination with flat, heavy side pieces creates the issue.
When hair lacks movement or layers around your face, it creates a curtain effect that can make your face appear longer and more drawn. This particular styling choice can emphasize jowls or neck laxity that might be beginning to show.
You might notice that this hairstyle makes you look more tired than you actually feel. A better alternative would be to keep your middle part but add face-framing layers to create movement and lift around your features.
Consider adding some volume at the roots or gentle waves to soften the overall look. Even subtle changes can make your middle part more flattering and youthful.
6. Very long layers that hide facial contours
As we age, our facial features naturally change, and hairstyles that once flattered might now be working against us. Very long layers that completely cover your face can actually hide your best features after 45.
When layers grow too long without proper shaping, they tend to hang heavily around your face, creating a curtain effect that can drag down your appearance. This style often lacks the movement and bounce that helps create a youthful look.
Face-framing layers are designed to enhance your features, not conceal them. When layers are too long and uniform, they miss the opportunity to highlight your cheekbones, eyes, and smile.
Consider instead opting for strategic layering that starts around chin height. This technique draws attention to your best features while still maintaining length if you prefer longer hair.
The right cut should create softness around your face rather than hiding it. Look for styles that open up your face and create movement, which tends to be more flattering for mature women.
You don’t need to sacrifice length completely, but some thoughtful face-framing pieces can make a dramatic difference in how youthful and vibrant your overall look appears.
5. Collared shirts buttoned all the way up
Collared shirts buttoned all the way up create a polished look but can clash with certain hairstyles after age 45. When you choose to wear a fully buttoned collar, it’s important to consider how your hair interacts with this neckline.
Long, loose hair often competes with a buttoned-up collar, creating visual confusion around your neckline. The collar itself already frames your face, so having hair that falls around it can make the area look cluttered and unfocused.
Pulling your hair back is typically a better option with collared shirts. A low messy bun gives that effortless look while keeping hair away from the collar area.
Very voluminous hairstyles can overwhelm a buttoned-up collar, making your overall appearance seem unbalanced. Instead, opt for sleeker styles that complement rather than compete with the structured neckline.
If you prefer to wear your hair down with a collared shirt, consider tucking it behind your ears or styling it away from your face. This creates cleaner lines and allows the collar detail to shine without interference.
Blouses with button-up collars work best with hair that’s styled with intention rather than just falling wherever it may.
4. Heavy waves that fall directly onto the neck line
When you reach your mid-40s, heavy waves that fall directly onto your neckline can create an unflattering effect on your overall appearance. These voluminous curls may have looked youthful in earlier years, but they can now draw attention to areas you might prefer to downplay.
Hairstyles for women with sagging necks should avoid adding bulk directly at the neck area. Heavy waves sitting right on your neckline can accentuate signs of aging and make your neck appear shorter than it actually is.
Consider lifting those waves away from directly touching your neck. A slightly elevated cut with waves that hover just above the neckline creates a more flattering silhouette while still giving you that beautiful texture you love.
The weight of dense waves can also drag down your facial features. As we age, gravity already works against us—why give it extra help with a hairstyle that pulls everything downward?
Instead, try neckline-flattering styles that create space between your hair and neck. This simple adjustment can take years off your appearance and highlight your best features rather than drawing attention to areas you’d rather not emphasize.
3. Bixie cuts with uneven lengths causing imbalance
The bixie haircut combines elements of both bob and pixie styles, but when the layers become too disconnected, problems can arise. After 45, facial features change, and extremely uneven bixie lengths can draw attention to areas you might prefer to downplay.
When bixie layers are cut too dramatically different, they can create visual weight in all the wrong places. You might find that choppy, uneven sections make your face appear asymmetrical rather than providing the balanced framing you’re seeking.
The typical ear-length bixie works best with well-blended layers that transition smoothly. Extreme variations in length can create a disconnected look that adds years rather than the youthful effect you’re aiming for.
Consider opting for a more balanced bixie with graduated layers instead. This modern approach maintains the style’s edgy appeal while creating harmony around your face shape and features.
Styling also plays a crucial role in your bixie success. When layers are too uneven, styling becomes more challenging and often requires more product and effort each morning. You’ll achieve a more flattering look with subtle variations that work with your natural texture.
2. Necklines with ruffles that add unnecessary volume
As you mature, it’s important to consider how certain style elements affect your overall silhouette. Necklines with excessive ruffles can create unwanted volume around your chest and shoulder area.
Ruffled necklines can be particularly problematic if you have a larger bust, as they add extra bulk to an area that may already be prominent. The additional fabric draws attention upward and can make your upper body appear disproportionately heavy.
For women over 45, the goal is often to create balanced, elegant lines that complement your natural shape. Unnecessary details like ruffles at the neckline can disrupt this balance.
If you love the feminine touch that ruffles provide, consider fixing an awkward neckline with just a subtle hint of ruffle rather than overwhelming volumes. A small, controlled ruffle can add interest without overwhelming your frame.
1. Oversized turtlenecks swallowing the neck completely
Finding the right balance with turtlenecks can be tricky after 45. Oversized turtlenecks that completely engulf your neck might create an unflattering silhouette by hiding one of your most elegant features.
When a turtleneck is too loose or bulky, it can create a shortened appearance between your chin and chest. This effect can make your neck look non-existent and add unwanted volume to your upper body.
You might consider looser mock neck styles that provide warmth without overwhelming your neckline. These offer a more balanced look while still keeping you cozy.
Many brands now offer modern turtleneck options with varying heights and fits specifically designed to flatter mature women. Look for designs that hit at the right spot on your neck rather than bunching up.
The ideal turtleneck should gently frame your face rather than consume it. Try folding down very high necks once for a more flattering fit that still provides warmth without the swallowed-neck effect.